Top 10 Qualities All Women Look For In A Man

BY BART SMITH, AUTHOR OF B.S. THE BOOK

Guys, hands down, here's what every woman looks for in a man. Cultivate these qualities about you, and the woman of your dreams will walk right into your life …

1. PASSION: In everything you do and believe! Your energy, drive, power, attitude and intense emotion towards living life the way you want and to the fullest! Blood pumping, fever pounding, heart scorching desire makes you live out your dreams, visions and the life you want for you and your gal. Very early on in your relationship, and throughout your life, she will always love this quality most about you. Passion for living and loving her … like you do!

2. PATIENCE: Slow to anger, always understanding, always able to wait for her body to warm up to yours every night you make love.

3. CREATIVITY: Never boring, always spontaneous, forever surprising, original in your thoughts, behaviors and everything you do.

4. ATTITUDE: Independent thinking. You don’t follow the crowd; you know what you want. Society? Fads? Trends? and Cliques? They can go to the way side as you care not for them every second of the day. You march to the beat of your own drummer. And, that drummer is you … The beat of your heart pounding every minute of the day in time with her love …

5. INTELLIGENCE: You have a mind and you’re constantly developing it. Sharper, smarter, more and more precise in every thought you have. You’re an educated man in matters of the world, life, your career and loving her deeper than any other man has ever loved her before in her lifetime. You are the man of her dreams and she’ll live her life in accordance with that fact.

6. MASCULINITY, PHYSICAL STRENGTH & APPEARANCE: You exhibit a pure masculine strength and appeal in the way you feel about yourself; the way you talk and in the way you walk; and always in your appearance. Also, in the many ways you hold her tight at night and in your arms. You work out, consequently, the muscles all over your body call out and were designed to save, protect and cover her as she naturally and instinctively craves your physical protection as a woman.

7. HYGIENE: Yep, you take good care of yourself, on the inside and out. Regular showers, brushing your teeth, guarding against heavy body odors, bad breath; you trim your nails routinely, shape and manage your body hairs and get a hair cut on a regular basis.

8. SENSE OF HUMOR: You know how to make her laugh and smile all day long; throughout the day and every day for the rest of your life you always make her laugh and smile.

9. RESPONSIBILITY: You have a job, car, a bank account. You pick up after yourself, you don’t blame others for your mistakes, you take responsibility for your own actions. You are where you are in life based entirely (almost) on the decisions you make, those you’ve made and those you didn’t make. Think twice, think carefully and make the best decisions for you … and the one you love.

10. CHARACTER: The man every woman dreams of has morals, virtues, ethics, manners and personal character in the way he carries himself throughout life. What’s on the inside, eventually will come out. Always, mind your manners, be honest, upright and truthful with your honey.

… So far so good? How about two more bonus qualities:

*HONESTY: Always be honest with your woman and that way she knows that she can be honest with you about her thoughts and feelings. Never hide anything from her that you wouldn’t want her to hide from you; not to mention, find out … eventually!

*SENSITIVITY: Be aware of her and what she is feeling. Always be on the lookout, always curious … “How are you today?” “What’s wrong, you don’t look happy? Can I help? (Did I do something wrong?)” She is more in touch with her feelings and open to sharing them if she knows that you want to know what those feelings are.

And, if that wasn’t “right on the mark,” here are
the rest … Guys, acquire every one of these fine
qualities, traits and characteristics and you’ll never
be without a woman for the rest of your life!

Eye contact, energy, warmth, absolutely approachable, well kept, clean, neat, excellent posture (shoulders back, chest out, standing straight, feet forward walking), a tad vulnerable, absolutely honest, always a smile, maintain your very own sense of humor, excellent grooming, personality, character, uniqueness, athletic / care about your body, clean, warm smile, outgoing, drive, ambitious, friendly, lovable, cuddle-able, friendly, affectionate, knows what he wants in his future, passion, confidence, kind towards others, generous, sex appeal, a friend you can talk to, adventurous, goals more important than money, employed, passionate about your work, companionship … the best opening line you could ever have is? Introduce yourself! Duh! Simple, honest, sincere, besides telling her “Oh, you look great” … Smile and make her smile … A real man, yep, “Mr. Fixit” once in awhile; not Mr. “Why don’t you call someone for that, I’m busy.” And, don’t worry about saying the right thing all the time. Race, wrestle, play chess with her and let her win, once in awhile! A guy who loves to read, hold hands and kiss … Everyone has lots to learn about life and the man she seeks needs to be willing to teach her what he knows and be willing to learn from her and with her along the way as well. A man who smells good and has the ability to see the big picture. Nothing turns a woman on more than (your) intelligence. Someone that she’d like to talk to and make out with. Yep, that’s her man!