To Attract Mr./Ms. Right, You Have To Be …

BY BART SMITH, AUTHOR OF B.S. THE BOOK

Work on you first. This cannot be overstated. Develop YOU first. The more interesting YOU become, the greater the odds the right person will come along into your life just for you and notice your unique qualities and wham! I think that’s called instant attraction!

Another tip, if you think you’re going to regret breaking up (with a potential soulmate) for some stupid, selfish reason or another, don’t do it! You’ll have to live with yourself and your decision for the rest of your life.

Men ask yourself, "Did I just find my best friend or what? Does she "get me" or what? Is she in my corner, or what? Yeah! I’m blown away by her interest in my life and the things that I do. We really have a connection. Yes, I can see the future … Looking ahead … Would I want this woman to be the mother of my children? Would I want a daughter just like this woman, her mother, the woman I love? Would I want a son to be just like me that she gives me – through our loving together" If the answers to any of these questions were a resounding "Yes," then you’ve found a woman with absolute soulmate qualities …

Ladies, ask yourself, "Has this man made me feel more alive than any man I’ve ever met? Has he shown me patience and the respect I deserve? Has he treated me in such a way, like the woman I was born, with grace and honor … yet thrilled my soul, curiosity and fascination? Does he care for me, look out for me, take interest in the little things I do that make me who I am?" If the answers to these questions call out a resounding, "Yes," then ladies, you too have found "soulmate" qualities in the man you’re with …