Never Direct A Woman To Do What You Want
BY BART SMITH, AUTHOR OF B.S. THE BOOK I've heard women tell me this is a big pet peave, let alone, guys, it's not good for the relationship in the long run.
- So, never ever direct a woman to do what you want for your own personal satisfaction. Instead, just ASK! Or influence her in your direction with loving, inviting ways that she understands involve her benefiting from what you have in mind.
- Never seduce a woman for personal gain. You can seduce a woman for HER gain. Stay honest and true to pure intentions, and you too, indirectly, will win along with her.
- Exercise confidence, strength and leadership. Qualities every woman desires in a man.
- Out with the old and in with the new … YOU!
- Remember the formula for failure = [trying to please everything about a woman] when you can’t really do so. FIND YOUR SPECIALTY; FIND WHAT PLEASES YOU; RUN WITH THAT. Only be with a woman who compliments the REAL YOU.
- If you’re single, and interested in someone, romantically that is, you’d better let them know early in the game. “I’d like to see more of you …” Otherwise, while you waste your time “getting to first base,” your prospective mate may be snatched up by another guy before you even ask for the first date! So, remember the old adage, you snooze, you lose. Balance though, don’t move too fast, but move in with the proper pace.
- It’s okay to chase a gal … yep, even your own wife! Make it into a game, something fun. Remember to court her over and over and over again like you first did when you both first met.
