Bart Smith, Author of B.S. The Book Bart Smith, Author of B.S. The Book Bart Smith, Author of B.S. The Book
Bart Smith, Author of B.S. The Book Bart Smith, Author of B.S. The Book
Bart Smith, Author of B.S. The Book

Maintain a Small Element of Secrecy About Your Life

BY BART SMITH, AUTHOR OF B.S. THE BOOK

Laws Of The Bedroom by Bart Smith

This is true! Guys, maintain a small element of secrecy about your life and your plans for living out your dreams. Here's why and here's how …

  • I say this only because, women love mystery, spontaneity, surprise and adventure. If you keep your plans for you and her to yourself, year after year, and only let her “see” and “experience” them (with you) in your relationship with her your woman will find a million ways to fall in love with you all over again – because every event you plan, every move you make, every gift you give and every word you say will always be a surprise and filled with spontaneity and adventure.
  • What’s more, tell no one (else) about your plans on improving yourself with this information. Only let people NOTICE how confident you’ve become. Only let your woman NOTICE what a better lover you’ve become. Only let your woman NOTICE how much more loving you’ve become. If we have to talk about it, then we ain’t doin’ it.
  • When planning your night out, plan it, hush up and do it! Don’t talk about it, decide (with her, if she would like to have input, do ask her) … or … if she’d like you to take the lead and decide for the two of you – do so, swiftly. She’s (testing you, subconsciously) looking for leadership. Make your plans, decide intelligently, yet quickly and act. Start having fun, go out, do, dance, and get into her every minute you’re with her. Get into having fun with her all night long!
  • Radiate confidence, charisma, true warmth and charm that women find so irresistibly attractive.
  • Work on developing your own personal charisma through music, reading magazines, observing others you admire, study clothing styles in popular clothing catalogs, etc.
  • Be light, humorous and fun. Don’t be too heavy. Women love a sense of humor. Cultivate your own. Develop your own style of original humor and always be able to poke fun at yourself in ways she finds cute and adorable every time.
  • Your new attitude should soften everything you do. “Honey, take a look at this … How’d you like to do this (activity, etc.) or try this (new restaurant, etc.) …?”
  • Your attitude should be one of ABUNDANCE and not SCARCITY. You’re laid back in the decisions you make, relaxed in the way you operate.
  • Be interested (in her) and she’ll be interested (in you) … all the time!

 

Posted by Bart Smith on Monday, February 8, 2010 at 2:49 am 
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