Lead Your Own Life & You’ll Be #1 To Her!

BY BART SMITH, AUTHOR OF B.S. THE BOOK

Guys, check this out! Cultivate and practice all of the following and you'll find your gal making you #1 in her life above all else!

• Be all original! No copy-cats allowed; be like no one else. Follow in someone else’s footsteps and you’ll be #2. Great leaders throughout the history of the world were all first and they were all unique. They all stand out, and so will you.
• Be unique, be you. Cultivate the special qualities that set you apart from the crowd. Don’t give in to trends, fads and fake ads. Create your own world. Live in your own world. Invite her into it (i.e., your home, your domain, your kingdom).
• Be a man of substance … Be your own man, tall and confident, yet romantic, sweet and considerate in nature. Lavish love throughout her mind, body and soul every chance you get …
• Be spontaneous, a lot of fun and yet, surprising in all the ways you love her. Always plan ahead, keep your plans a secret and always surprise her with gifts, plans, travels, events, dates and dancing occasions!
• Be aggressive, yet mellow and always cool, calm and collective!
• Passion wins the game, find something in your life about which you can be passionate. Live for it, go for it … rock it ’til the day you die!
• Physically, give her body what it needs … TIME! Time to get aroused, time to achieve sensual pleasures like she’s never experienced before.
• Expect MORE out of life. Think of life like a restaurant, place your order. If you don’t tell people exactly what you want, how do you expect to get what you want? Tell people how you want it, and they’ll give it to you that way. Ask for their help – they’ll give it to you. Everyone wants to please people, they all want to be accepted by people, it’s a character flaw in every one of us.
• Accept LESS in special ways that promote a higher quality of living and loving for both you and your woman.
• Be on time; and don’t be late to events, dates, meetings or anything. Set the example; time is precious and you don’t like wasting a moment without her …
• Know what you want in life. Go after what you want. Expect to accomplish that which you set out to do. Don’t accept anything less.
• Mind your manners and behave when you’re out in public. Show the highest class of etiquette wherever you go and with whomever you’re with at all times.
• Never dominate any conversation. Let everyone speak. Do most of the listening. Ask questions and then listen even more. Speak when it’s appropriate. Make every word you say count and have impact. Just don’t ramble on like some of the idiots you see out there. Words are powerful; choose them carefully. The right words in the right order can really get you practically anything you want in life. “Come here, honey … Yeah, come closer … That’s it. Now, doesn’t that feel good?”
• Stop talking in terms of “I met this hot chick/babe, …” Stop using language typically associate with “locker room talk.” Please, grow up. You’re a gentleman now. Respect the privacy of you and your gal’s most intimate moments.
• Do not boast of your “accomplishments” in the bedroom with anyone, not even yourself. Consistently humble yourself.
• Guard against arrogance, egotism and losing control of your common sense and gentleman-like qualities. The more confident you become; the more knowledgeable you become; the more attractive you become to your woman and the world; the more essential it will become for you to “humble” yourself constantly, in everything you do with and without your woman by your side.
• Smile. Maintain eye contact. Show interest. Ask questions, encourage, and be positive. Take your time. Relax. Good things come to those who wait.
• Stand up straight, suck in that stomach, chest out! Walk tall and walk with a purpose. Know where you’re going. Know who you are and stand for something. Feet pointed straight ahead when you walk.
• Don’t slouch, bend, bow, crouch, droop, lean, loaf, loll, lounge or sag. You’re a man and a confident one at that. Project that image everywhere you’re seen.
• Shake hands with other people firmly, smile and look them in the eyes when you do this. Be sincere, gentleman-like and confident.
• Enjoy the rest of your life with her from this day forward. Let someone else worry about changing the records of life. That’s not your job. Your job is to be with her, spend time with her, dance with her! Let someone else serve you both! Let someone else worry about driving you to dinner on your honeymoon or on her birthday or on Valentine’s day. Let someone else worry about the little tasks around you, while you cater your attention all on her.
• Have good intensions with what you do with and to a woman. Take your time. Be patient, and see how honest the girl you’re with will also be with you.