Grooming Tips That Attract A Loving Woman To You!

BY BART SMITH, AUTHOR OF B.S. THE BOOK

Nothing too fancy here, just a few basics and some personal recommendations to help keep you clean, humble and lovable in her eyes …

• Keep yourself clean-shaven, unless your girl loves you with a goatee. She has soft, gentle skin 'round her lips and mouth. Match that; shave the same day you plan on kissing her. Also, use moisturizers on your face to keep it fresh and looking young.
• Keep it trim down there. You know what I'm talkin' about. Maybe you don't like jungle hairy women down there (or, maybe you do) … But, for the sake of your gal and for reasons of cleanliness, hygiene and the added appearance of a larger rocket … keep it trim down there and regularly. In fact, keep your whole body trim for that matter. Trim your armpit hairs, your chest hairs, leg hairs, any other hairs (all over and behind) … for a slimmer, less hairy you. Women do love hair on a man. They love to run their fingers through it … So don't be so quick to shave it all off. Just keep in mind they don't like hairy jungle men either. So, keep yourself trim and slim. The best time to trim is right before you shower.
• Heaven "Scent" – When it comes to cologne, whatever you do, don't drown yourself in too much cologne. Encourage her only to wear a whisper of perfume as well. If your honey loves a certain brand of cologne on you, wear it. She probably loves to wear your shirt too, the one you just took off or let her wear 'round the house that still has a hint of her favorite cologne on you … "I'm wearing your shirt right now. It smells just like you, and I love it! It's like you're right here with me. Can you come over? NOW!" For the most part, be as natural as you can be. When you go out on a date with your honey a little cologne's all right; deodorant a must! But remember, you want her to be able to smell you too, not just your cologne. Too much cologne on you or perfume on her can really wipe you both out! But, by the time you both get home, your cologne's wore off and all that's left is the natural scent of your flesh 'n' love along with hers. Together, there's nothing more erotic than the scent of two lovers going at it all night long, skin on skin … Enjoy the natural smelling scent of her nakedness as you allow her to enjoy yours.
• Keep your teeth clean and breath sweet smelling. Brush your teeth after every meal. Brush every tooth top, bottom, inside and out with small circular strokes. Brush your gums and brush your tongue with a tongue scraper to prevent bad breath! Have your teeth professionally cleaned twice a year. Bring a toothbrush to work (and keep it there). Keep a brush in your briefcase and/or in your car. Brush your teeth before you go to bed, before you kiss her, before you do anything, really. Keep breath mints in the car and around the house. AND, BRUSH YOUR TEETH WITH TOOTHSOAP®. I love Peppermint flavored Tooth Soap®. I stopped brushing with corrosive (personal opinion) toothpaste more than 2 years ago and I've never looked back. Every time I brush with Tooth Soap®, my teeth feel cleaner and stronger. Try it, you've got nothing to lose, but cleaner, stronger teeth!
• Shave in the shower (or right after) when you're pores are more open and your skin is softer. Shave your beard stubble really close and smooth. You don't want to scratch her soft 'n' sensitive lil' clit zone or her wet lined paradise down under. When you shave, use warm water and clean razors. Use natural shaving lotions and avoid those cheap foams and crap gels they sell in the grocery store. Many are loaded with alcohol and other skin-drying chemicals. Yikes, not good. Instead, check out Alba Botanica Moisturizing Cream Shave. Perform a search for their "Alba Botanica" and "Shave" products. Talk about a great alternative shaving lotion! Wow, was I impressed when I stumbled onto this smooth shavin' cream. A smooth shave for both men (and women) every time. Lubricating emollients (makes shaving less harsh or abrasive) along with botanical skin conditioners, these shaving creams are especially formulated to deliver a smooth and soothing shave every time. Also enriched with certified organic aloe vera, jojoba and vitamin E (so cool), their highly concentrated, soap-free formula allows for an effortless razor glide and moisturizing protection against drying and chapping skin. Again, very cool. Your skin will feel smoother, softer and look better! I'm not kidding. I was impressed. Check it out … Alba Botanica Moisturizing Cream Shave.
• Take care of your (facial) skin. Moisturize after shaving, after showering and together when you're with your honey. For your face, here's a product tip everyone can use, both male and female … My mom introduced me to this "dual treatment" moisturizing lotion that she's been using for years to look 5-10 years younger (she looks amazingly youthful and beautiful). It's also dermatologist recommended. It's both a skin moisturizer and it protects your face from the sun's harmful rays (SPF15). It's called Purpose® by Johnson & Johnson. You can find Purpose® at most drug stores. Just ask the store clerk (kindly) to find it for you. Oil-free, hypoallergenic, fragrance-free and it won't clog your pores. What do I like about it? Wow, I saw a dramatic increase in the smoothness (and youthful appearance) of my facial skin in just a few days. Why is this cool? I can't count the times people thought I was 5-10 years younger than I really am. So, give it a whirl. It should do wonders for you too. Why not look years younger for you and your honey! Best applied right after shaving with one of the AvalonOrganics.com's shaving products just previously discussed.
• When it comes to moisturizers for the body, tryDerma e® Vitamin E 12,000 IU Creme. Check 'em out at www.Dermae.net. Here's what's so great about this lotion … Sure, it's great for you and your body, but more importantly, it was made for your honey's. Check this out … Some time ago, I was asked to record the audio for a health seminar discussing "Breast Health" for women. I know, a very titillating seminar to attend, for sure. Actually, the topic was quite serious. The speaker, a female naturopathic doctor, recommended to the women in her audience to take better care of themselves and their "breasts" by regularly massaging this very special, nutrient-rich, vitamin E lotion on their breasts. She emphasized how important it was that women spoil themselves with this massage technique to help decrease the stress (and increase the love) in their lives for their bodies with the intentions of hopefully curbing the possibility of contracting breast cancer. Well, when I heard that, I immediately raised my hand and to say something mirthful, "Could that be the man's job? I mean, I will volunteer for that …" The crowd laughed (with me). And, from that day forward, I had a new job. And, so do you. You're now your honey's official "Vitamin E Lotion Breast Masseur!" Yep, every time you make love, you're gonna break out the ole' Derma e® Vitamin E 12,000 IU Creme and massage her breasts all the way to heaven. I know, it's a tough job, but you're highly qualified and wait 'til you see the expression on her face (and in her heart) when you tell her about this and why it's so good for her breast health. Besides, breast cancer IS a very serious concern for many women. Help yours live longer by lending a helping hand (or two) in her direction. It goes without saying, her breasts deserve a lot of spoiling and special fondling, I mean handling, uh, I mean attention. The herbs inside this lotion help to firm up and tone her skin. The result? … Healthier, more beautiful breasts for both you and your sweetums to love … and fondle … and play with … and kiss … and, well … you know what I mean … Let's move on!
• Clip your fingernails and your toenails often for all the right reasons. HER! You need very smooth 'n' trimmed fingernails to slide on in smoothly in 'n' out of her sweet lovin' lips of love down under. And, when you're layin' in bed together, you also don't want to "jab her" with your "knife-like" toenails either. YIKES! Treat yourself to a manicure (and pedicure) once in awhile. They cost next to nothing, take no time at all and the treatment you receive is worthy of a king! Listen, they really make a difference. Tell your honey what you did and she'll be thinking how smooth and nice your hands will feel massaging her (inside) and more all night long. Another tip, keep an extra set of finger nail clippers in the car. Whether you're driving to her house for a date or coming home from work, clip those puppies before you see her. Be sure to clip the corners down to the skin; file them if you can too. Oh, and it goes without saying, don't bite your fingernails. It's not healthy, its way unattractive and it's a bad habit to get into nonetheless. So, stop it.
• Moisturize your hands (and your body, for that matter) after showering, working outside or in the garage, playing out in the mud or dirt … you name it. When it comes to petting and probing her naked body and loving hidden valleys of love you want to make sure your hands are always soft, smooth and well cared for. You can use the Derma e® Vitamin E 12,000 IU Creme to do the moisturizin'.
• Trim those nose hairs! Talk about unsightly hairy matters! I've seen both men and women with "nose hairs" jutting out of their sniffer. Embarrassing moments like these can ruin first impressions, face to face conversations and always that close and romantic facial connection … oh yes, the kiss! Also, check yourself weekly for upkeep (I mean maintenance) in this region. It's a good idea to prune those nose hairs at least once a week or as often as you need. Here are a few simple tips for keeping your nozzle trim: You can use specialized nose trimming scissors or a mechanical (usually battery operated) device with rotary or oscillating blades which are specifically designed to trim nose hairs. Use a mirror, close up, to help you trim and to inspect the results of your efforts. Wipe your noise (clean) as you trim and clean the scissors after you're done. While you're in there, be sure to check for anything else that doesn't belong or might appear distasteful to your date or next meeting. A note of caution: focus on what you are doing. Pay close attention, as that region of the nose is tender and highly susceptible to scratches. And, by the way, while you're looking yourself over, don't over look those hairs growing out of your ears either. Trim your body hair. Don't let it grow out of control like a jungle. Trim your chest hairs (every so often), your armpit hairs (often), your leg hairs (on occasion) and all the hairs elsewhere 'round your flag pole and where the sun don't shine. Your woman's going down there, ask her what she might like and proceed with caution. Most women, don't want it too shaven, maybe yer dodge balls, but that's about it. Also, keeping trim down there, helps your rocket stand out more … all for her, of course.
• Dress to impress. Make yourself look hot every time you go out on the town and when visiting with friends. Look great for your babe!
• Clothing – Dress your best, don't dress sloppy. The better you dress, the better quality of the female persuasion you will attract. Simply put, you attract the "image" you convey. Dress like a bum, you'll attract bums. Dress for success, you'll attract successful women. Sure, it's okay to dress a lil' casual now and then. But, be able to dress up from time to time, to impress your gal. She wants to look her best and she wants you to look your best too. Don't know how to dress (yourself)? No worries! Shop around, peruse catalogs for ideas. Walk into stores and just look around at what's in season and in style. Read men's fashion magazines like GQ.com and Details.com. Also, look for more web site resources in the back of this book for men's fashion and personal development. Cool stuff, check it out.
• Clothes off the floor, off the furniture, off the bed, off the dresser, folded neatly inside the dresser (doors closed), hung in the closet … Make your bed every day, keep your bedroom tidy … you get the picture.
• Jeans – Tight; gotta nice ass? Show it off. Girls like a nice ass! Girls love 'em on us, like we do on them! Yep, they sure do. Don't have one? Want one? If you want girls to give you a second glance or talk about you in the restroom, work on this feature part of your body.
• New boxers, briefs and underwear. The sexier the better. If you always wear white jockeys, get colored ones.
• Shoes – clean, polished, laces tied …
• Slacks – pressed and dry cleaned, hung to prevent wrinkles.
• Shirts – ironed, dry cleaned, hung or folded neatly to prevent wrinkles.
• Keep a few dry-cleaned pants and shirts hangin' in your closet when you need them in a hurry … Always be prepared.
• Show you care about your appearance. Dress with style, as often as you can, and … without breaking the bank!