Develop A Unique & Personal Sense of Humor
BY BART SMITH, AUTHOR OF B.S. THE BOOK 
Surprise her, catch her off guard or poke a little fun at yourself from time to time. Confidence in yourself allows you to do this with tremendous ease. Have a cute gimmick that’s original to you that can use every now and then to make her smile, laugh or giggle.
Never laugh at your own jokes. This is a tough one, I’m sure, ’cause you wanna join in on her fun. But, don’t. At least not until the very end, then you can laugh together, hug and even kiss, then go about your business together. Your job (as her man) is to make her laugh … Laughter, as you know, is some of the best medicine for a healthy relationship.
Make her laugh a lot. When she’s laughing, you’re serious (about what it is your joking about)! When she laughs, make a serious face and say something like, “What? Why are you laughing? I’m serious, I’m thinking about becoming a purple monkey trainer and joining a circus safari … I can’t stand my day job any more!”
Sometimes, you don’t have to say anything to be funny. You can make humor physical in the way you stand, walk, wave your arms and hands, trip, stumble and fall … Whatever you do, be original, be creative and further, don’t steal jokes from the opening acts of comedians or TV and radio guest hosts. Be original. Make fun of something close to you, something obvious in front of the two of you, personalize it even!
When she starts to laugh, encourage her to laugh even more by repeating the joke or adding other complimentary jokes on top of that! If you can get her rolling on the floor hurtin’ and cryin’ from too much laughter – you know you just made her day. Do this a billion times in your relationship, through and throughout, and you’ll have her loving you ’til the day you die. Remember, she could have had a really tough day. You’re her #1 source of fun, entertainment and emotional release. And, because of all that, you’re really her chosen #1 source of love and protection. Do your job with honors and do it well. Make her laugh …
all the time!
Involve her in your life (plans). Say things like, “You and I are going to do this …” (And, do it!) “I want to take you here.” (And, take her there!) Follow through with what you say and she’ll follow you to all ends of the earth. Making love to you each and every way under the sun.
