So far, we’ve talked a lot about how to deal with people and their B.S. With every response, action, phrase, comeback, reply you could ever return to someone committing any form of B.S. on you, the best way to deal with some people and their problems is with passive behavior.
What did you do to become an outcast or get banished from your family? Was it deserved? Unjustified? A mystery? Either way, being ousted by family isn’t all that bad. Think of it as a VACATION particularly if you were saturated with of their B.S.
This is real quickly tip for how you might respond to solicitors and tele-marketers who interrupt your time. When people bug you or annoy you, don’t get upset or angry? Give them an invoice for the time they spent committing acts of B.S. against you and be done with it.
These two concepts rarely go hand in hand, however, I include this little tip in this section because solicitors and tele-marketers are people, too. Granted, these folks interrupt your dinner hour, they knock on your door (or call) unannounced, they push products/services on us that we don’t really want or need. Right? What do you do when these people are coming at you?
“The ornament of a house is the friends who frequent it.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson Good friends you can count on one hand. Choose your favorite 1-5 people you can trust and give them your all. Be there for them; day in, day out, year after year. Just like they might need you in dire times; […]
First of all, relax. It’s not the end of the world, but the end of class. That’s right! Life places many people in our lives to teach us things, and if the time has come that you’ve either grown apart or desire to move in different directions with different interests, it’s unfortunate, but you will both survive particularly if you handle matters with respect and sensitivity.